Today, I needed that extra little shot in the arm that we call motivation. There was a video that had been passed along to me, so I went ahead and gave it a watch…If you are so inclined you can watch it here:
I hope you stuck around to read a little more…if not, I understand. I was motivated after watching it. As I watched it there was a single line that struck a chord with me:
What if never entered the arena
That phrase…”What if?” gets us nowhere. It only leads to regrets. It seldom leads us to a truth. It leads to a lot of false beliefs about ourselves and who we could have been.
Entering the ring, succeeding or failing, reveals the truth. Entering the ring and trying teaches us the sometimes harsh and often times rewarding reality about what exactly we are capable of.
The fight is the lesson.
Sometimes we win, sometimes we lose, but we always learn about who we are. We learn about the pain we can endure, the challenges we can overcome and the areas that we must improve.
What if I go up in weight on the barbell? Forget the what if…Go up in weight on the barbell!
What if I start a new business? Forget that…start it!
What if I fail as a writer? Fail as a writer, put yourself out there. Someone, even in your failure, needs to hear what you have to say. Someone needs to know that they are not the only one scared but enter the arena anyway.
Stop waiting for the perfect time. If you have the dream, take a chance…risk failure, and stop being afraid of your own success!
So please, do me a favor…starting Monday…live a week with no what if’s. Decide and commit! No what if’s…succeed, fail…learn…grow!